LADIES: Hell Yes | Hell No

Hell Yes | Hell No for the ladies by Stephanie St.Claire

 

Hell No

No to the man who has a woman at home, but still tries to have you.

 

No to the man who doesn’t call when he says he will.

 

No to the man who refuses to figure out what he can contribute to the world.

 

No to the man who has unresolved anger toward his mom or ex.

 

No to the man who is hard to locate.

 

No to the man who is shady in his business dealings.

 

No to the man who starves you with very little communication or time together to keep you wanting him.

 

No to the man who is ambivalent about you after 3 months of dating. Or 3 years of living together.

 

No to the man who gets drunk and becomes a possessive asshole.

 

No to the man whose security comes from you wanting him.

 

No to the man who your gay friends would label ‘not good enough for you.’

 

No to the man who will put up with your bullshit without an apology from you.

 

No to the man who, on the first date, discusses how ‘skilled’ he is with his tongue.

 

No to the man who calls your emotions ‘drama.’

 

No to the man who habitually escapes life with video games, pot, porn, or self-help books.

 

No to the man who is any less a man than you’ve had before.

 

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Yes to the man who allows you to be YOU and unfold your heart at your own pace.

 

Yes to a man who is looking for a human woman, and not just a checklist of his fantasies.

 

Yes to the man who keeps figuring out what he wants.

 

Yes to the man who manages his appetites 90 percent of the time.

 

Yes to the man who wants to protect you.

 

Yes to the man who can break all the rules when the occasion calls for it.

 

Yes to the man who regularly makes an effort to connect with a higher power, nature, or the best version of himself.

 

Yes to the man who goes on with his own life while he’s waiting for you.

 

Yes to the man who really tries to see it from your point of view no matter how much sense you’re not making.

 

Yes to the man who wants to provide for you.

 

Yes to the man who takes note of your favorite things and gives them to you.

 

Yes to the man who does something because he said he would, even if he is now bored with it.

 

Yes to the man who works his ass off every day.

 

Yes to the man who asks you what you need.

 

Yes to the man who wants to be your best friend.

 

Yes to the man whose own self-respect is the top of his priority list.

 

Yes to the man who is skilled at having difficult conversations and doesn’t fight back with blaming, silence, yelling, or amnesia.

 

Yes to the man who lets you lavish your love on him and helps you bloom as a woman in the process.

 

Yes to the man who knows his worth, his liquor limit, his day rate, and his sell point.

 

GO FIND THE MAN WHO YOU CAN SAY YES TO – AND SAY YES.

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Yes! I wrote one for the men: Hell Yes | Hell No { for the gentlemen } 

 

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